Mix the meatballs. Add the ground chicken to a mixing bowl, along with 3 crushed garlic cloves, the grated ginger, 2 chopped scallions, the chopped cilantro, 1 tablespoon of gochujang paste, 2 teaspoons of fish sauce, 2 teaspoons of sesame oil, 1/2 cup of panko breadcrumbs, 1/2 cup of ricotta, 2 tablespoons of sesame seeds and 1/2 teaspoon of salt. Mix very well so that all the ingredients are combined with the ground chicken evenly.
Form the meatballs. You can bake, air fry, or pan fry the meatballs. If you're baking them, heat your oven to 425°F (220°C). Line a sheet pan with parchment paper. Lightly wet your hands (this will help to prevent the mixture sticking to them), then use a spoon to scoop up a heaped tablespoon of the mixture. Roll into a ball and place on the prepared tray. Repeat with the rest of the mixture.
Cook the meatballs. If you're baking the meatballs in the oven, pop them in and cook for 20 minutes, until golden brown. If you're air frying the meatballs, pop them into your air fryer basket and cook at 400°F (200°C) for 12 minutes. And if you're pan-frying them, drizzle the olive oil into a large, high-sided (ideally) non-stick pan or skillet. Add the meatballs and cook, turning occasionally, for about seven minutes, until they've got a lovely golden crust. They don't have to be completely cooked at this point. Remove them from the pan and set aside on a plate.
Start the sauce. Set a large, high-sided (ideally) non-stick pan or skillet over medium-high heat (if you've pan-fried the meatballs, use the same pan). Add the sesame oil, then add 3 crushed garlic cloves, the grated ginger, and the 3 chopped scallions. Stir for a couple of minutes, then add 1.5 tablespoons of gochujang paste. Stir the paste through the aromatics for a couple of minutes.
Add the coconut milk. Pour in the coconut milk, 1 teaspoon of soy sauce, and 2 teaspoons of fish sauce, stir, and bring to a simmer. Lower the heat, and simmer the sauce for five minutes to thicken it slightly.
Add the meatballs. At this point, add the cooked meatballs to the sauce, stirring them through. Cover the pan and cook on low for another five minutes.
Garnish and serve. Finish by squeezing the lime juice over the meatballs in the pan, then dollop with the sweet chili jam. Scatter with the remaining cilantro leaves, sesame seeds, and chopped scallions. Serve over rice or noodles, with fresh bread or straight from the pan.